“Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Eleanor Roosevelt
I would like to add “powerless”, “victimized”, “hopeless” and 100 other words to her empowering statement. On this day when I see my beloved United States of America portrayed as a racist, xenophobic, heartless oligarchy in the international media, I am embarrassed to be an American.
I am a white woman married to a black man. I have a bi-racial son. As an English as a Second Language Teacher, I have worked with clients from Japan, China, Taiwan, Korea, Jordan, Iran, Turkey, Indonesia, Saudi Arabia, Turkey, Mexico, Brazil, Italy, and Poland for the past 20 years.
Diversity is intertwined in the fabric of WHO I AM.
When I engage, connect, and unify with these sacred members of the human family, we transcend race, religion, country of origin, politics, education. We find that place of familiarity, that sisterhood and brotherhood that is imminent, powerful, transformative.
Trump recently banned asylum for Syrian refugees for 90 days. This makes me think of my Syrian clients and friends, their divided families and the possibility of loved ones abroad dying from violence, starvation, illness.
Trump’s supposed “Wall” will directly and indirectly impact the 100’s of Mexican factory workers who were part of my ESL classes on the South and West Sides of Chicago – their families, the Pilsen neighborhood, or their aged mother or father back home in Cuernavaca who is dependent on that monthly wire transfer.
These are not abstractions on Fox News – these are real people and real stories. Trump’s ridiculous policies will have financial, medical, educational and life threatening implications on these mothers, fathers, employees, students, voters and community members.
Working with this global population over the years, there have been hundreds of intense discussions of geopolitical issues. In this context, I am often called upon to act as a cultural liaison and to “represent”.
- This administration.
- These distorted “values” of divisiveness, isolationism, poverty consciousness (we have to protect US interests) and oppression of everyone who is not a white, male, conservative Christian.
- This pervasive hatred and this narrow-minded view of our global reality.
I can not take this sitting down. These impostors in the White House do not represent me or millions of other loving, conscious, intelligent American citizens.
THE PERSONAL IS POLITICAL, so here’s what I will do:
I will love my neighbor. I will yield to merging traffic. I will say “thank you” to my Starbucks barista. When the weather turns, I will once again sit outside of Barnes and Noble with my “Open Discourse – Weigh in on the State of the Nation” sign. I will set up a card table and chairs and wait to see who sits down. Then I will give each brave participant 5 minutes to share their thoughts – to vent or cry or celebrate. This is how I can effect change in my own community. This is how I can contribute to empowerment, hope and equality.